Sex after 50

Ha! If you’ve paid any attention to ads on TV, you probably thought I was going to give you some advice on how to get generic replacements or generic supplements to give you a boost. Wrong.

It’s not surprising if you have concerns, of course and hopefully we can lend some positive reinforcement to certain cultural myths. Before we attack the cultural myths, let’s be clear about the natural changes men and women go through in midlife and on the back end of midlife (50’s+)

1. When women go through menopause, they know it is happening. It can take anywhere from a few months to a year, but they know the change is coming and they can feel the radical differences in their body.
2. When men “change” the decrease in testosterone is gradual and almost imperceptible. Additionally, it occurs over many years and as a result, it isn’t noticed by most men. The result of this gradual decline for many men is a midlife crisis, confusion and even depression.

Let’s take a look at how anyone can not just cope with the process, but turn it around and create a BETTER sex life in the coming decades (pun intended). Click here and read on…

Have a Quickie!

How do I have a quickie?

Why do I WANT a quickie?

A quickie doesn’t hit the same pleasure centers of our brain as soft lights, quiet music and slow seduction. Those environmental triggers cause our romantic qualities to surface. A quickie is designed to attack our base desire to have sex…fast, dangerous and utterly animalistic. A quickie is designed to create an atmosphere of “I have to have you now, I don’t care that we haven’t finished dinner” attitude. This absolute hunger for raw sex is what makes a quickie attractive and effective, but only if you’re doing it right.

Click here and read how to make sure you create the BEST quickie experience for the both of you…

How Can I Get More Charisma?

It’s tough being someone like Pierce Brosnan…you can’t just “go out” for ice cream. You’ve got to have body guards to ward off the paparazzi, drive a block out of your way to lose them, and probably sign a few autographs at the Dairy Queen…what a drag.

But you CAN harness the awesome power of charisma, and like any weapon, use it skillfully and purposefully. When looking into the nuances of what you can change, I will avoid the obvious ones (Make more money, lose that spare tire, and have good oral hygiene). You know that the more financially and physically attractive you are the better. It doesn’t matter if you are married or not, the more you earn and the better you take care of your body, the more sex and attention you will get. Period.

So let’s work on the easy stuff first. Read on for 7 simple things you can do TODAY to increase your charisma and get more sex! Click here to read on…

Money, Sex & Power

What else is there besides sex and money?

What? Are you possessed? Are you a sex addict? COME ON, Doug!!! Surely there is community service, family, religion…heck even an automobile show certainly isn’t about sex and money…wait a minute.

OK, except the car show (Those things are ONLY about sex and money…trust me if you’ve been to one, they don’t use good actresses to show off the cars. These gals are hired because they are sexy!)

Cars….well, we all know that a car is simply an extension of a man’s penis.

How about community, God and country? What about those? How can I honestly think they relate to sex? Read on and see…

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Younger Woman Older Man

C’mon guys, if you are in the midlife zone, you know you have thoughts of younger women. There is no shame in knowing what you want and being upfront about it.

We are men and we are visual, predatory creatures. Yes?

Just don’t let nature make you look ridiculous.

I am reminded of a joke from Dave Barry’s book, Dave Barry Turns 40.

“Does that mean, as an aging person, you’re no longer capable of feeling lust that you felt as an 18 year old? “Not at all. You’re attracted just as strongly as ever were to 18 year olds! The problem is that everybody your own age seems repulsive.”

Sociology be damned! Man has created so many social rules that trying to figure out where God, the church, evolution, monogamy, love, lust and propagating the species all fit together is maddening.

Let’s focus on one issue at a time. Click here to read the full article.

Top 10 Sex Jokes

Oral Sex For Seniors

A young fellow was about to be married and was asking his grandfather about sex. He asked, “How often I should have it?” His grandfather told him, “When you first get married, you want it all the time, and will maybe do it several times a day. Later on, sex tapers off and you have it once a week or so. Then as you get older, you have sex maybe once a month. When you get really old, you are lucky to have it once a year, maybe on your anniversary” The young fellow then asked his grandfather, “Well how about you and Grandma now?”

His grandfather replied, “Oh, we just have oral sex now”
“What’s oral sex?” the young fellow asked.
“Well,” Grandpa said, “She goes to bed in her bedroom, and I go to bed in my bedroom. And she yells, ‘Fuck You!’, and I holler back, ‘Fuck You’ too!”

Hypothetically and Realistically

One day a boy comes home from school and says, “Dad, I need to know the meaning of ‘hypothetically’ and ‘realistically’ for school.” The father replies, “Go ask your mother if she would sleep with another man for 1 million dollars.” The little boy goes and asks and sure enough she says yes. His dad says, “Ok now go ask your sister if she would sleep with a man for a million dollars.” He does and sure enough she says yes. The father says,…

Click here for the punchline and 8 more GREAT sex jokes!

Is Sex Better When You Are in Love?

How does the emotion of love relate to sex?

Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn’t. Like many of us, we’ve had “sex” and we’ve “made love.” Ask anyone which is more satisfying and they’ll tell you that making love has way more power to it. (Even really great sex is better with someone whom you truly love!)

The approach you take to falling into, maintaining and nourishing your love is a job that never ends. I would be a fool to try and explain it. My hope for you is to simply shed a little light on love and perhaps give you some pointers to assist your personal navigation of the most confusing emotion imaginable-Love.

Let’s learn how to understand and conquer two of the biggest obstacles to finding and maintaining true love in any relationship…click here to read on.

Deeper Penetration: Kama Sutra Style

In the Kama Sutra there are sex positions which are named after Nature: flowers, birds and animals. Some names of the sex positions sound very nice and exotic, some do not. I am sure you’ve heard of Doggy-style and the variations that come with it. Now what about a Peacock-style? Or a Swan-style? The very words denote love, beauty and artistic flair.

Time to learn about the birds and the bees….Kama Sutra style!

According to the size of a man’s penis (the lingam), man is divided into three main types: the hare man, the bull man and the horse man. It doesn’t matter if you are a horse, bull or a rabbit, you can please a woman and make your your absolute LOVE slave if you learn, practice and master her emotional and sexual needs. Click here to explore the world of ancient lovemaking…

Make Your Wife Sexy-Horny

Writing about sex can sometimes just make you horny!

But it wasn’t always that way. For many years (especially when the kids were little) my wife’s energy, enthusiasm and overall sex appeal had just about disappeared.

At the time it seemed like the right thing to do…take a back seat to the kids. They came first and my wife was working 24/7 to raise them with very little sleep. After a few years, we both entered the rut of parenting and resigned ourselves that our sex life was going to be towards the bottom of our “to do” list…way down there, at the bottom…yuk.

I needed a solution like I needed air to breathe! Click here and read on to discover how I turned it all around…

More Sex in Vegas

It’s here…

After over 2 years of thought and requests, I have decided to unlock the secret code to creating a SUPER-HORNY wife in a live seminar setting.

The challenges I have always faced are how to cover the material in a setting that is safe and conducive to open discussion. My answer…

Vegas baby!

More importantly, I didn’t want a large seminar where some guys might feel left out or uncomfortable. Therefore, I am limiting the number of participants to my private suite and for a VERY limited number of guests.

Your sex life is about to take a quantum leap forward. If you’ve read my blog or my book, you know I am a no-nonsense expert at transforming an average or frumpy wife into a smokin’ hot vixen.

This workshop will be VERY exclusive. It will NOT have hundreds of attendees or be a “motivational” seminar in any way. In fact, I will probably limit the number to less than 20. My goal is to give you a chance to meet me, go over the process and learn how to PRECISELY and methodically transform your sex life.

Where else can you do this besides Las Vegas?! Click here to learn more now.